Lesson 7: The Paradox in Giving Up Control

“The quality of giving up control is actually a quality of Eros. The paradox is, as we give up control and surrender, power begins to flow. ”Marc Gafni

To be a lover, is to let go of control. “I love you so much, that I am going to let you choose, even if you choose against me — I will surrender to what is.”

In order to give up control, you need trust to create radical intimacy with your partner. Radical intimacy is your ability to allow someone else to witness your surrender. The place where you can practice giving up control is in the bedroom. Because it turns out that your degree of pleasure in sexuality is directly related to your ability to give up control.

In lesson 7, you will:

  • Discover the quality of KENEGDO; the ability to surrender and release control even if your partner opposes you
  • Cultivate radical trust every time you surrender and release control
  • Explore new ways of deepening intimacy with your partner through various exercises
  • Liberate Eros from the sexual to access the quality of giving up control in every dimension of your life
  • Learn that control also has its place and that you cannot actually live without it
  • Learn how to practice surrender in the sexual and cultivate more personal power
  • Engage life with the radical audacity to emerge and transform
  • Explore the holy game of domination and submission which is the game of power and surrender in life
Core Material – Mandatory

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Transcript Lesson 7

Transcript Lesson 7


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